The Difference Between Compliments and Cat Calling.

There’s a line.

“I like your dress!” is acceptable. “You! In the red blouse! You’re gorgeous!” is also acceptable. “I like how your dress clings to your ass, sexy!” is NOT acceptable. “You! In the red blouse! Nice tits!” is also not acceptable.

Let’s put it like this.

If your “compliment” refers directly to:

• a person’s ass
• their genitals
• their breasts (or lack thereof)
• how much you want to have sex with them
• how you want to have sex with them
• wanting to have sex with them against their will
• seeing certain parts of that person’s anatomy (sexual or not) in a specific, sexual act
• calling the person a name that is considered ‘degrading’ or involves profanity
• ‘pet names’ on a stranger

then it is not a compliment, it is catcalling, and consequently, is harassment.

So as I was saying. There’s a line. “Hello, beautiful.” is alright. But “Hello, beautiful. Those lips look perfect for sucking my cock.” has crossed that line.

Here’s a good litmus test: Would you pay a woman the same “compliment” if your mom was standing right next to you? 

If not, keep your mouth shut.

Here’s another test: would you say it to your mom? If not that’s probably because you’re doing something creepy and/or overtly sexual.

Telling your mom she looks gorgeous or has a nice dress on is a legitimate compliment on a person’s appearance. Remarking on your mom’s ass, tits or acts you’d like to perform with/to her is a cat call and is no better said to a stranger than to your mother.

I’d like to add that, even if your comment is simply “You look beautiful.” and the person does not respond favorably too it just leave them alone. They don’t have to take your compliment, however well meant it is.

Another thing i would like to add: if the girl is/looks/seems underage and you are a grown fucking man DONT SAY ANYTHING!!!! I DONT CARE HOW ‘WELL MEANT’ IT WAS. WE ARE CHILDREN AND WE DONT NEED THAT SHIT!

Thanks to those that contributed to this post <3.